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name: exit-interview
description: Use when asked to design or conduct an exit interview — the conversation or survey held when someone leaves, aimed at honest feedback about why and what could improve — as distinct from the offboarding-checklist, which handles departure logistics like access and equipment rather than gathering feedback.
---

# Exit Interview

An exit interview is a conversation or survey conducted with a
departing employee to understand why they're leaving and what the
organization could do better. Its value is entirely in the honesty of
what it collects and whether that feedback actually changes anything
afterward — it's a listening exercise, not a logistics step, and
shouldn't be confused with the mechanics of [[offboarding-checklist]].

## Purpose

- **Honest reasons for leaving** — the real factors behind the
  departure (compensation, management, growth, culture, a specific
  incident), which are often more candid than anything said during
  employment because the employee has less to lose.
- **What could improve** — feedback on team dynamics, management
  practices, tools, or processes that the organization can act on for
  the people who remain.
- **A read on retention risk elsewhere** — one exit rarely means much
  alone, but a pattern across several exit interviews (e.g. several
  people citing the same manager or the same broken process) is a
  strong signal worth investigating.

## Format options

- **Structured questions** — a consistent set of questions asked of
  every departing employee, so answers can be compared and tracked
  over time rather than treated as one-off anecdotes.
- **Written survey** — lower-pressure than a live conversation, useful
  for employees who'd rather not say difficult things to a person
  directly, and easy to aggregate across many exits.
- **Live conversation** — allows follow-up questions and nuance a
  survey can't capture, at the cost of being more intimidating for some
  departing employees.
- **Who conducts it** — ideally someone other than the employee's
  direct manager, such as HR or a skip-level, since a manager who is
  themselves part of the reason for leaving will get a filtered answer
  at best.

## Feeding findings back into retention practice

An exit interview only pays off if its findings go somewhere: aggregate
themes across exits (not individual quotes) should reach the people who
can act on them — HR, leadership, the affected team's management chain
— on a regular cadence, and specific, recurring issues (a manager
named repeatedly, a policy cited again and again) should trigger real
follow-up, not just a note in a spreadsheet. Treating the interview as
input to [[organizational-development]] work, rather than an archival
record, is what makes it worth the departing employee's time to answer
honestly.

## Common pitfalls

- **Data collected but never acted on** — employees notice when the
  same complaints get raised exit after exit with no visible change,
  and it erodes trust in the process for everyone still asking them to
  participate.
- **Conducted by the person the departure is actually about** — asking
  a manager to interview someone leaving because of that manager
  guarantees a filtered, unhelpful answer.
- **Treated as a formality** — a rote checklist of questions asked
  without real interest in the answers signals to the departing
  employee that their input doesn't matter, and they answer
  accordingly.
- **No consistency across interviews** — ad hoc questions each time
  make it impossible to spot patterns across multiple departures.
- **Timed too late or too early** — squeezed in during a chaotic last
  day gets rushed, low-quality answers; conducting it well before the
  employee has mentally checked out can also skew candor.

## Learn more

- [[offboarding-checklist]] for the logistics process this feedback
  conversation runs alongside.
- [[organizational-development]] and [[people-and-organizational-development]]
  for the broader practice exit-interview findings should feed into.
- [[performance-review-meeting]] for the ongoing feedback loop an exit
  interview complements after the fact.